25 THINGS I WILL TELL MY YOUNGER SELF

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Hello t-w-e-n-t-y f-i-v-e

1.    It’s okay to be different
Growing up the society always reminded me that I was ‘different’. I always felt uncomfortable whenever people stare at me. I wish someone could have told me that I am unique and beautiful in my own way. I am all kind of beauty. I am a miracle, I am a wonder, I am a force that should never be ignored , a powerful one hahahahaha!!

2.    Enjoy each moment/ stage of your life
Guys this life was given to us to enjoy it, not just enjoy but enjoy in abundance. It is good to plan for the future, have plans but it is equally important to enjoy each and every day as it comes.

3.    Focus on the positive energy in your life
Negativity is part of life, it is always there. The choice is yours where to put your energy. As for me positivity all the way.

4.    Comparison is the thief of joy
In life there is always someone intelligent, smart, taller, richer than you and that is okay. The problem comes when you always compare yourself to those people. Always focus on your own life and improve. I understand we all need some inspiration from other people but make sure it’s positive. The grass looks green the other side because it is taken care of, do likewise.

5.    Nothing is permanent in life
Things change. People change. Keep it moving.



6.    It is okay to fail learn from it
Your actions after failing determines your success. I failed 2 courses in my first year of university but I never give up. It made me stronger.

7.    No is a complete sentence
Let your NO be a NO, you do not owe anyone an explanation.

8.    Never force relationships
There are a number of times where I have forced relationships with people. Even in romantic relationships there are times when I could stay in unhealthy relationships because of fear of being lonely. Let me tell you sweetheart, ‘Never force relationships. People’s rejection is God’s protection”.


9.    When someone shows you who they really are, never take it for granted
Believe them the first time.

10. I am my priority
Always choose YOU first. Your happiness matters. You deserve some love from you. Guard yourself jealously. You are rare. You are gold, pure gold sweetheart.

11. Prayer is everything
My secret is I pray. I trust in God for everything. He is my number 1 helper.

12. Be fearless in naming your price in whatever business you are in
Lol !! I know I have been in this thing called business for a few months but I have learnt a lot. When you mean business do business. I used to do life coaching for free now it has been a bit difficult to transition to do it professionally.  People want things for free, I am not gonna lie I love free things too but let’s learn to support other people’s business. And there those people who want to hire you in return for limelight, really!!!!! (Rolls my eyes to the mars and back, lol).


13. Have fun
Having fun is everything it keeps you young. Have plenty of fun in whatever way you feel comfortable. Life is to be enjoyed, it is a blessing.

14. You can have a lot of people around you and still feel lonely
Then you know you have the wrong people in your life. Revamp.

15. Along the way you will still meet the most amazing and supportive people. Keep them
I am grateful for 2018 I have met the most amazing people and I am grateful. I have met good friends online and offline and I am keeping them.



16. It is not everyone who believes in you and that is okay
2018 has been eye opening for me. I am grateful for the unwavering support I receive from my friends and family.

17.  Personal development is my responsibility
invest in your personal develop that's what makes who you are. 

18.  Believe in yourself
if you dont believe in yourself who will. 

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20.  Have principles and values

21. Be open minded
the world is yours to explore and learn sweetheart.

22. Never give up
23. It is not everything that you need to share with the world
24. Let go
25.  Life is what you make out of it
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